Janda/Duda - apa tanggapan anda?

Bila kita bercerita tentang Janda/Duda or Miss J/Mr Dude, apa tanggapan anda?

Few people akan kata mereka gatal.

Few people akan kata kesian mereka.

Few people akan kata padan muka.

Few people akan kata tataulah.

Few people akan kata hopefully aku xjd mcm dorg. Susah woi.

Few people akan kata janji dorg xkaco rumah tangga aku sudahlah.

Few people akan kata laki kan bole kawin empat. Tlg dorg satu ibadah kan?

Few people akan kata jangan harap nak bermenantukan dorg. Dorg tu cerai mesti ade sebab. Ntah2 sbb dia.

Few people akan kata dorg ni xleh jaga family sbb bercerai.

Atas ni, sume tanggapan. Xcaya? Too true to be true?

Seriously, aku kesian dengan mereka. Hopefully husband aku and aku akan berkekalan. Duda slalunya laku, janda lah usually susah.

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Type of Friends that I have

How many types of friends do you have in your circle of life? I have tons of friends. Wanna know my type? this is just my opinion but if you think its useless, well, try to reflect it from your own experience. do you have this type of person in your circle of friends?

1. stubborn - although we have advice 1000x about the husband/girlfriend/boyfriend/wife, still wants them back. After wasting 70months fighting, break up/divorce and become very tragic 
2. full of ego - did the wrong thing but never wanting to apologize. have to stay away from you as I cant stand your freaking ego
3. OKB - stands for Orang Kaya baru whom is recently very rich and whatever this person do, although it is wrong, everybody is trying to say that he is right. 
4. Butt Licker - this person is even worst, they will try to lick your friend's butt who is OKB because they got some debt with him/her. Mess with that person, they cant pay back.
5. Shit principle holder - No matter what, friends come first, but when the boyfriend is a control freak, forget friend. or no matter who you are, if you are freaking wrong, then you are wrong but if I have debt with you and no money to pay, i can put my principle aside. Whatever you do is correct.
6. too nice - they are extremely too nice and sometimes get on your nerves but they are just tooo nice.
7. too handy - loves to help. Its good too! 
8. Over the fence - this type of friends, they just sit on the fence and not doing anything. if few person fights, they will sit over the fence and watch and say yes to everything but not backing up at all.
9. 2 faces - face to face, fucking nice. back to back, from head to toe story comes out.
10. always act mature but actually not - tell people i am immature, but when you did, its okay as it will be freaking cute.
11. Spy - they just freaking listen and then tell everything to the person that we fight. we wouldnt know as he/she will act like there is nothing happen between us.
12. accepting - no matter how bad/good u are, he/she accepting.
13. not to say bad about people. Its too good to be true. o_O Sakit jiwa dpt manusia macam ni. When you think u hv good friends, they do this. So once u got a good one, appreciate them.please.

LEmbu nak jaga

Its a parody of MOVES LIKE JAGGER. If u listen carefully, moves like jagger does sound like lembu nak jaga. I got lembu nak jaga,i got lembu nak jaga, i got.lembuuuuuuuuu nak.jagaaaa.

Lembu - cow

Nak jaga - to take care

Lyrics? Will upload it soon ;) quite dirty but its a parody lol

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concert by Female Hollywood Celebrities - sexy or not?

I am a bit confuse with Malaysia rules. Although i have been 26 years living here i still dont get one thing. About letting female artist to come over to Malaysia and asked them to cover up. Till today i still cant accept this. Call me murtad or what, but what i am saying is hypocracy. Why?

Went to Mariah Carey concert back in 2004/2005. Heard lots of issues saying that she needs to cover up, no showing off skins. Ok, here i would appreciate as i also not fancying to see her skin that much but what i do care aboyt the audience. When i was there, the audiences wore as sexy as her video clip. High heels with tube shirt and hot pants. Where is the rules that applies to the singer but doesnt apply to the audience? Shockingly it was a Malay groups of people who wore that.

I am not saying that i am against any culture or what, not siding goverment nor opposition, but what are you trying to proof here? Asking the celebrity to wear properly but how bout the audience? If i am the celebrity, if i see my audiences like that, i will be questioning (why am i asked to cover up but my audiences not?) i might not going to return to this country as i can see how hypocrite this country is. I start questioning every single time when they talk about this.

Worst part, our own Malay, Muslim celebrities wears as sexy as Hollywood stars and nobody freaking stops them? Why double standard? Cuz everything in Hollywood is sinful and here is not? Take a look at our own tv channel, doesnt mean slutty and bitchy have to wear sexy. They can even wear scarf,tudung or baju kurung to be mean and slutty. Its reality we are talking about here. Malaysia is so afraid to show reality but deep in our heart, its totally opposites. Yes, i should not be fooled by media but hey, kids under 18 follow what Media tells. There is no more what teacher says its true or parents says but they.will say the media or tv saids that. Trust me. People may smack my head for saying this but hey, its a truth.

But again, if I am world celebrity and I saw Malaysians celebs wear like a whore and I am asked to not showing ny skin, i will definitely tells my fellow celebs 'better not to come to Malaysia as they are hypocrite totally. They allow their celebrities to show skin but we cant. What the heck?' i think Beyonce, Rihanna is not as stupid. They certainly make a research before they wanna come here. Maybe they have the same idea as me.

Few of my friends from overseas, they did ask me why they didnt see most people covering up and some are sexy like living in abroad. I told them that once we are baligh, we need to wear and it is a must. For me i am not ready but i am supposed to wear it already. I feel like a hipocrite because i always swearing but covering up. So doesnt show good example as a good Muslim.

This is just my opinion. Yes, you didnt ask for it but it keeps playing on my mind. I do think i should have share my thoughts right?

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Married & divorce. trend or problem?

Nowadays, we did hear lots of people who get married and get divorced after 2-5 years of marriage. This is just an opinion from me where i think where this is come from. What are the root cause and such.

First, most couples are forced by parents to get marry early when deep down, they are not ready to do so. In another way, they think that they can prevent sex before marriage and other problems and they think they can fix it later.

Second, couple thinks by getting married could change the person. For example from player to loyal, from bad to nice, from evil to holy but they forget, if the person have a will to change,they will change without being asked/told or getting married.

Thirdly, some young adults married with older guys but since they are more mature, they are controlled by the husband/wife and couldnt handle the pressure. Some older partner thinks that their partner should always listen to them as they are older but they forget, world evolves and surroundings change. They should have listen rather than they think they knew everything.

Fourthly, traditional or modern style of bringing in the family. How the husband treat the wife. If the husband can do whatever they like and wife have to stay at home and only out by the permission of husband, may lead to explosion of a woman one day if the woman find out husbanf hv another women outside. For Muslim, usually man always think they have 4quota which woman cant questions but they forget, we have to have a very valid reason to be allowed to marry another three. You must have money, hv to be responsible, accpuntable and fair for all. Fair in the sense of the money monthly, not both gave 400and u think its fair. U should see how many people in your first wife family, and your second etc.

For modern way, husband and wife have a discussion on every things they do. Or even have early vows or promises that the wife can go anywhere w friends they trust nearby without asking permission or at least tell the husband where she wanna go. Do everything together and if you need space, tell each other honestly. Being too honest is not good too but know your partner. Be more like parents other racrs. Learn from them, not judge them by a bad parents or not.

Next issue maybe, unfaithful. This could be they have yet to enjoy their single lives or being player. They forget their limit as husband/wife and cheat. They think by keeping it quiet can helps.

Next, anger. When they are mad,the word Divorce is easily said. Usually husband play a big part. For Muslim, once a husband said 'we shall take a break or we shall separate for a while' its does have a huge problem. Definitely, you are confirm divorce. So guys, make sure that word never exist in your head. Its dangerous.

Lastly, in laws. Here a lot of issue, no blessings from parents, parents in law acting like an pain in the butt or even worst, they controlled everything. They even interfere in their kids's marriage life. They should have not. As a marriage couple, they shall know. Come on, they choose to be in happy n suffer together, why in the world you wanna interfere? Support them emotionally by listening not by pushing them to leave each other and get a new one. Doesnt hel.

For me, this is why parents have to teach their kids to enjoy life but at least to get marry by 30 but enjoy lives. Parents may think this is BS but trust me, if u dont allow your kids to enjoy their life, you know what happen? What i have said above. All of it.

Parents pay a huge part of this. Every marriage do have a problem and as mention, let them handle it. Parents that come from broken family, doesnt mean yours is broken, your kids shall not be happy too. Listen to them more, share the things they shall know. Tell them this is the story of life, its up to you how to handle it but hopefully you will make a roght choice. If your choice is bad, you shall let them.learn. Not scold them saying their stupid. Tell them its a lesson in life and they shall learn from.it. Not to be the firestone.

Well, i think i have type enough. Think about it and see your future, how you want your marriage like. Enjoy life before thinking to ge marry but dont overdo it. It will be disaster too.

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happy new year

Dear readers, I will like to say happy new year to all and hope you will enjoy 2012 like tomorrow is the end of d world. After all, Mayan did mention Bout the end of the world is coming in 2012 aight? New life, new beginning! Regards, Writer