Nowadays, we keep hearing about social problems that occurs in Malaysia. I was doing some research on my own, with basic knowledge that I have.
Mostly, many rich people children has this problem but they never throw their small babies everywhere they like because once they know they are pregnant, either they were sent overseas and born the baby there or they do abortion. For those who are in the mid class, they either do that or get married in a sudden...
Recently I remember something. I have quite a lot of weird friends which I would not revealed their names for the sake of confidentiality and respect of friends, but this is the fact. So if they think its them and get frustrated with my sentences. But I just want to share with everyone why this problem may occur.
Problem:
This friend of mine, been knowing her since I was a small kid who really innocent. Back then, our friendship is totally good till now, when the family getting richer and richer, we kinda goes apart. It is not like my family is low standard, my family loves to be low profile where we prefer simplicity rather than showing off. I was lucky my father trained all of us to be humble and not too much exposed on the branded stuff that much. Back in 2004 - 2008, i remember all the girls invited her out and her mum said no. We were surprised with that because we were really close to each other.. I was a lil bit sad. Few days after that, I was invited to go out with her, and her guy friends. Guess what? The mother said okay but as long as we could be back by midnight. yeah we do go out and even the clocl strikes at 12, her mum didnt call but when she went out with all girls, her mum keep calling every 5 minutes... And what does that show? We are evil girls who gonna teach your girl how to FUCK with a guy? Mind my word but yeah..
I remember we camped at one of our neighbour house (back of her house) and her mother was checking us 24/7 and we were only like 16 and after 12midnight, the mother come by and stay with us till early morning? Guess what? non of us are boys and the mother said "im afraid you guys bring up boys.. and I dont think I can sleep tonight worrying about you".. Dat is freaking over protected but hey, I understand you are a mum but hello? Just behind of your freaking home... U can check us out from the window and dont have to join our Pajama party (=_=)
After a while, we are all went into Uni and guess what, everywhere she goes with a man/boy or whatever as long it is not female/feminine or bitch, her mother never call her after 12 where is she and sort... We're kind of wondering... is her mother thinks we're teaching the daughter for doing all illegal things or she dont care if the daughter got fuck cuz she got alot of money?
So, what do you say about this? Any comment from the floor? Could this lead to PROBLEM in teenagers? if we have this type of parents, it is very very hard to predict because what I learn is, once you are over protected, when u had a chance to go our from your family, definitely you will do things that u have ever experienced...
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Monday, May 03, 2010
Whats new with Realizing?
Hello again people,
Today, I have time a lil bit to write up my blog. Okay, again, I know this blog is mean for me and my husband and my husband is not updating... this is because he obviously said this "Papa tatau nak tulis apa..." and I have no idea what to write about him too... Maybe I will write something when he is around ok?
Anyway, I have browse through some of the bloggers in the net. There are great bloggers, good bloggers and WTH bloggers so I am in the category of WTH? hahah I have read this one of my ex ex friend, who I dont consider her as good friend of mine again...Dont ask me why, i think you know why.
She was saying about the different classes of people and about why people keep discriminating others... OMG!! I am so glad that she finally said that to herself!! Hello, you keep saying why people doing this and that but dont you remember that you are doing the same freaking thing to me before and others too?!
Why I said this ya? Okay, she said something about "Cant you accept people surround you as what they are?" Hello.. you never accepted my husband as what he is and you even ask your mother to said this to him. "I dont think you deserve Wawa at all.." What the heck!? Who the heck are you to say that to my partner? You are not even my mother/aunty or whoever related... I dont even think you are qualified to say anything to me or to him! I am really disappointed but I was happy to see now only you realize how people treat others? and why dont you think and reflect what you have done to others? Without saying sorry, I feel bad for you. But thank GOD you have realized!
Today, I have time a lil bit to write up my blog. Okay, again, I know this blog is mean for me and my husband and my husband is not updating... this is because he obviously said this "Papa tatau nak tulis apa..." and I have no idea what to write about him too... Maybe I will write something when he is around ok?
Anyway, I have browse through some of the bloggers in the net. There are great bloggers, good bloggers and WTH bloggers so I am in the category of WTH? hahah I have read this one of my ex ex friend, who I dont consider her as good friend of mine again...Dont ask me why, i think you know why.
She was saying about the different classes of people and about why people keep discriminating others... OMG!! I am so glad that she finally said that to herself!! Hello, you keep saying why people doing this and that but dont you remember that you are doing the same freaking thing to me before and others too?!
Why I said this ya? Okay, she said something about "Cant you accept people surround you as what they are?" Hello.. you never accepted my husband as what he is and you even ask your mother to said this to him. "I dont think you deserve Wawa at all.." What the heck!? Who the heck are you to say that to my partner? You are not even my mother/aunty or whoever related... I dont even think you are qualified to say anything to me or to him! I am really disappointed but I was happy to see now only you realize how people treat others? and why dont you think and reflect what you have done to others? Without saying sorry, I feel bad for you. But thank GOD you have realized!
April Updates
It has been a month since I have posted my last update blog.
Alhamdulilah, syukur kepada Tuhan I have been accepted to work in Cyberjaya, a company called TSMY. Working environment here is totally different from the previous job I had. Here it is more open, people are friendlier but sometimes scarier but I do know one thing, be myself is the best way to keep the relationship close.
Anyway, on the other update. I told you I volunteer for something right? I was frustrated again and again and decided to bust the volcano out. I start emailing everyone saying that I was not accepted and was left out although I am the secretary of the alumni. I feel like I was abandon. I know I am an attention seeker but being a secretary is a must to know about everything because I could minute it correct? They said I am not qualified enough to be at the camp but hey, who the fuck are you to tell me that? and what the fuck is all my team members are there but I am at my house wondering what do they do? And guess what? after we meet up for meeting, they keep on talking to the camp that I wasnt allowed to be in it and keep giving me False Promises about "I'll send you invite" but never did....How freaking frustrated I am. I am sure all of you will feel the same way too. The most saddest part, I was elected to be the Head of Video for some event last year and the ND of that company said "we elected you to be under *si polan*, not by your own..." Hello, you were not at the meeting at all because your maid run away and obviously you did not read the minutes prepared by the Chair of the event... Not the Secretary of the event because obviously, they dont really know how to write in English... Although they studied in US, Australia, they are a lil bit donkeys... Not even once you care about it at All! What is wrong with that Org? Now, they challenging my credibility as a leader and definitely I will proof them HELL WRONG!
Since I was talking about being a leader, now I have new event for Michael Jackson Charity. We are doing this as following :-
Date : 26th June 2010
Time : 10.30am GMT+8
Venue : Monrods, Section 13, Laman Seri business park Shah Alam.
Please check the event update here in FB.
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/event.php?eid=115835081772873
Those who dont have FB, we will be creating the blog for this event too. Please be with us. Thank you!
Support the children meaning you support the world to be the better place :)
Alhamdulilah, syukur kepada Tuhan I have been accepted to work in Cyberjaya, a company called TSMY. Working environment here is totally different from the previous job I had. Here it is more open, people are friendlier but sometimes scarier but I do know one thing, be myself is the best way to keep the relationship close.
Anyway, on the other update. I told you I volunteer for something right? I was frustrated again and again and decided to bust the volcano out. I start emailing everyone saying that I was not accepted and was left out although I am the secretary of the alumni. I feel like I was abandon. I know I am an attention seeker but being a secretary is a must to know about everything because I could minute it correct? They said I am not qualified enough to be at the camp but hey, who the fuck are you to tell me that? and what the fuck is all my team members are there but I am at my house wondering what do they do? And guess what? after we meet up for meeting, they keep on talking to the camp that I wasnt allowed to be in it and keep giving me False Promises about "I'll send you invite" but never did....How freaking frustrated I am. I am sure all of you will feel the same way too. The most saddest part, I was elected to be the Head of Video for some event last year and the ND of that company said "we elected you to be under *si polan*, not by your own..." Hello, you were not at the meeting at all because your maid run away and obviously you did not read the minutes prepared by the Chair of the event... Not the Secretary of the event because obviously, they dont really know how to write in English... Although they studied in US, Australia, they are a lil bit donkeys... Not even once you care about it at All! What is wrong with that Org? Now, they challenging my credibility as a leader and definitely I will proof them HELL WRONG!
Since I was talking about being a leader, now I have new event for Michael Jackson Charity. We are doing this as following :-
Date : 26th June 2010
Time : 10.30am GMT+8
Venue : Monrods, Section 13, Laman Seri business park Shah Alam.
Please check the event update here in FB.
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/event.php?eid=115835081772873
Those who dont have FB, we will be creating the blog for this event too. Please be with us. Thank you!
Support the children meaning you support the world to be the better place :)
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